Important things- 2014

Just a couple more days!!!

Words to live by lately. Or, forever.  

A day for love and family, Merry Christmas!

It's been a LONG time since I've blogged.  I'd apologize, but I'm not necessarily sorry.   Just tired of my life revolving around my sicknesses.   

It's the eve of Christmas.   I'm not necessarily in the spirit like I usually am.   Life has been crazy, rushed, busy.   None of the things that the holiday should bring.   I, and people I love have been impacted by hard times, death, tragedy, sickness- things that are hard to overcome at this time of year.  So this Christmas, I don't care about the presents, the food, even the booze that I normally consume at great lengths- the most important thing is that I am here.   I am present.  My family is healthy, I have a roof over my head, food on my table- and I am here for the people I love whenever they need me.   Those I care so deeply about are clawing their way through- and they will get there.  They'll get there by the love and strength of family, friends, great people who will help them through,people who I am proud to say, are like me.  

Take a minute today,(though I know you probably will!), and remember the good times you've had with those who can't be with you.  Gone too soon, gone this year, or gone even long before.   Laugh about some memories, and smile with some love in your heart.  Today is the 25th anniversary of the death of my father-in-law. No, I never had the privilege of meeting him, but I feel like I know him through the stories, the pictures- the good times that my husband and his family talk about and remember.  I know he would be so proud of his children, and would've loved to know his grandchildren- even his two great grandchildren.   I know he is watching over us and smiling. 

My wish for everyone this Christmas, is that you get to spend it with those you love.   Take some pictures, laugh and smile, and may you find love, good health and happiness in the new year!

Merry Christmas, 

Mb